A Sexologist is one who is an expert in the field of Human Sexuality.His field of study includes subjects like Psychology,Medicine,Sociology,Family Studies,Public Health,Social Work,Counselling and Therapy.History and Education.
Some people believe that a Sexologist cures only male sexual problems.This is not the case.The most common problems treated by a Sexologist are 1 Low sex drive 2 Erectile Dysfunction 3 Lack of lubrication in Women 4 Premature Ejaculation 5 Delayed Ejaculation 6 Anorgasmia 7 Painful Sex 8 Vaginism 9 Sexual Aversion.
A sexual problem is different from other problems in the sense that a sexual problem affects not only the individual but his/her partner as well.Sometimes the problem may lie with the individual,sometimes with the partner and sometimes with both.Hence as far as possible,the couple should visit together.It is also important to take the cross history so it is always better if both the partners visit the sexologist.
There can be several reasons why he may not want to see a Sexologist.1 He may have personal inhibitions 2 He may be socially inhibited 3 He may have relationship issues with you.If you have relationship issues with him,try to solve some of them.You can then explain to him how his problem affects you as a person making you frustrated and depressed in your sex life.Create a positive picture of the future for him.
A sexual dysfunction needs professional help.In order to lead a happy sex life,a couple should read topics like 1 Male Sexual Anatomy 2 Female Sexual Anatomy 3 Sexual Physiology,4 Reproduction 5 Birth Control 6 Childhood Sexuality 7 Adolescent Sexuality 8 Adult Sexuality 9 Love 10 Sexual Communication 11 Enhancing Sexual Relationships 12 Sexual Behaviour.
Some women are shy.You can take her to a female gynaecologist and get her sexual examination done.This should make her feel more comfortable.Then you can visit me with your partner.Please bring along the sexual examination report.
Sexual problems can be caused by 1 Biological factors 2 Sociocultural factors 3 Intrapsychic factors 4 Relationship factors 5 Cognitive factors.All these factors are taken into consideration before treating a patient.
A) There are 45 must ask questions to each other.You can pay a certain fee and get the questions online or you could come here to my clinic and have guided discussions in my presence.It will take about 5 sessions to discuss the 45 questions in depth.